by Nicola Harris Gallagher
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12 Feb, 2024
F ollowing weight loss surgery there is going to be change. By this I am not only referring to your ever diminishing silhouette but actually everything about you and life as you know it, will have some sort of change impact following your surgery. It may have been that getting out and about, having plenty of socials was your thing, meals and drinks out regular. Date night might have been your favourite Indian restaurant, or your Fridays may of included drinks after work with your colleagues. Weekends may of been family time, cinema, Sunday lunch out and a bouts. This doesn’t have to stop, but to accommodate your new surgery you will have to make some changes, adapting and adjusting old habits to be able to manage your new way of life. It may have been the opposite, you might not of been big on socials, but you might find that this starts to change along your weight loss journey. Which is great, life really is for living. Until you find your feet following surgery, it’s good to keep things familiar. You can still eat at your favourite restaurants and enjoy your social mingling, you just have to be mindful of your new limitations and the amounts you can eat and drink especially. Being around people who know about your surgery makes life a little easier as they can understand more than others that don’t. But this is a personal decision on your behalf to share this information should you wish. Eating and drinking together can be a challenge and is not advised to do both following surgery. So it is just about planning ahead to accommodate this. Eat before you go out, meet up after the meal just for drinks. Or have the meal and take the drinking real slow later on. Continue on with your family fun too, just make sure any snacks you take with you to the cinema are ones you can tolerate. You might even find that you start to move out of your old comfortable routines and do other things as you start to lose weight. You might find that you have more energy and confidence and want to try something different and this is great and completely normal. Get your friends and family involved too, this may open up a whole new meaning to social fun! So yes there will be changes but this doesn’t mean you cannot still enjoy fun times and quality time with your friends or family. It’s just that things will be a little different to before, and as long as you are prepared to change and have the knowledge to help you adapt to different situations you will be just fine. Life is a journey, weight loss is a journey. Mix up the destination you might actually surprise yourself and have fun along the way !